Thursday, January 29, 2026

Grandma's Green Card

This is for everyone who thinks that ICE's current cruelty and chaos have nothing to do with them. "If they would just follow the rules, there wouldn't be a problem," they say. That is simply not true.

Flashback to 1952 and a simple mistake. 

Our grandmother, Rose Riconosciuto, was a legal resident of the United States. In 1920, she entered the country from Italy at Ellis Island, 24 years old, newly wed, and three months pregnant with my mother. I suspect she didn't share that detail with the officers there, or she might have been denied entry into the country. Anyway, she was a green card holder for most of her long life, until her kids arranged for her to become a U.S. citizen on her 100th birthday.

In 1952, she apparently forgot to register as a resident alien. She was threatened with prosecution, due to this oversight; however, when our grandfather, who was a naturalized citizen, sent in a sworn statement, explaining the situation and committing to being more diligent in the future, prosecution was deferred. It was a reasonable decision, based on her long, productive residency in the U.S., her strong family ties, and her acknowledgement that she had made a mistake. See letter below.


Rose's alien registration from 1942:


Just imagine how this would have played out in our current dystopian reality. Would masked ICE thugs have bashed in her door? Dragged her out of her home in handcuffs? Detained her when she came in for her appointment? Imprisoned her where her family couldn't find her? Sent her back to a country she'd left 32 years earlier? If you watch the news at all, you know that none of these scenarios is exaggerated, and things like this are happening every day, to people in very similar situations. 

We are a nation with a complicated, often cruel, history. We are also a nation of opportunity, ideals, and hope for immigrants, a place where many come to try to build a new life. That is my family's story, and it is the story of so many of us. Stand up. Listen to the stories of the immigrants of 2026, not the lies being told about them. Speak out for the rule of law. Speak out for the ancestors, many of whom endured the same slurs we hear directed at immigrants today. 

We must not turn away. Stand up. Speak out.

Tuesday, January 20, 2026

Her Dog Was in the Car



Sweet old dog, she called me
whenever I snuggled up
close to her and my boy.
She promised me a walk
when we got home
and maybe a belly rub, too.
She gives the best belly rubs.
I love her and I don't know where she is.

                        Fuckin' bitch, he said.

I don't know why they were so angry.
My mom never stops smiling
and if I whine just right
she always gives me treats.
Why were their faces covered?
Why were they yelling?
She said she wasn't mad at them.
Why did the big one try to hurt us?
I think maybe he did hurt my mom
because she hasn't come back.

                        Fuckin' bitch, he spewed.

I was glad we were leaving
because I was scared.
I cowered and tried to hide.
I cried and kept thinking that
if I just stayed real still,
we could go on that walk
when we got home.
Belly rub-treats-walk-sweet old dog-
I'm not mad at you-pop!-POP!-POP!

                        Fuckin' bitch, he shot.

Gone.
I wish she would come back
to take me on that walk.

Sweet old dog, she called me...

In memory of Renee Good, murdered by ICE on January 7, 2026.
May her memory be a blessing.